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Mary L. Trump, born May 1965, a clinical psychologist, is the oldest child of Fred Trump Jr., and the oldest grandchild of Fred Trump Sr. Mary's father died in 1981 at the age of 42 from a heart attack due to alcoholism.

作者简介

Mary L. Trump, born May 1965, a clinical psychologist, is the oldest child of Fred Trump Jr., and the oldest grandchild of Fred Trump Sr. Mary's father died in 1981 at the age of 42 from a heart attack due to alcoholism.

精彩摘录

Beingheldandcomforted,havingourfeelingsacknowledgedandourupsetssoothedareallcriticalforthehealthydevelopmentofyoungchildren.Thiskindofattentioncreatesasenseofsafetyandsecuritythatultimatelyallowsustoexploretheworldarounduswithoutexcessivefearorunmanageableanxietybecauseweknowwecancountonthebedrocksupportofatleastonecaregiver.

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Mirroring,theprocessthroughwhichanattunedparentreflects,processes,andthengivesbacktothebabythebaby’sownfeelings,isanothercrucialpartofayoungchild’sdevelopment.Withoutmirroring,childrenaredeniedcrucialinformationbothabouthowtheirmindsworkandabouthowtounderstandtheworld.Justasasecureattachmenttoaprimarycaregivercanleadtohigherlevelsofemotionalintelligence,mirroringistherootofempathy.

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